Thursday, May 21, 2009

Keep pushing yourself to next level

Today I want to share something which every one us would faced at some point of time in our life. Yes! am going to talk about breakups . One would feel worst after his breakup with his girl friend or his closed one. Dealing with a breakup is seldom easy. I want to tell you how to get over the painful situation and move on with our life. Getting back to normal life may take some time but altogether is very much impossible. Their memories will haunt us some time or othe. Whatever it is life has to move on.

One should not feel sorry for himself. He/she should not give the past to get into creep into any point of life. This may add emotional feelings and burst them into tears. They should realize about the importance of themselves, how valuable they are to their parents and neighbors. They should focus only on their carrier not the recent places which they have visited. One should catch up their routine, this may divert the thoughts and elevate the mood in them.

He/She should not stick at home for a long time. Hang out with their close friends, share their feelings to the other. Go out for a dinner or to a beach. Getting to movie with a bunch of friends will help to get them back. If not get engage in some activity which you desire. Some people will stick to the books and some with their favorite music stuffs.

Don't try to dig into the photos or videos of a particular person. It will completely destroy your inner consciousness. Better to destroy them completely. Never to hide the feelings, If you feel like crying. Cry it out!. Some people may be spiritually strong, so they may hide their feelings by visiting the place of worship. If they are willing to serve or join NGO and do social work. This will realize that there are people much biggest problems in their life. Never rush into others life and take a decision, that may lead them in doing wrong. Better to be patient and handle things carefully. If one cannot handle things in positive manner they can consult a doctor and counselors, they will surely help you to cope with a right situation.

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